Saturday, May 27, 2017

Stress

It's like finally I got a little time to write something here. It has been a super busy time after my birthday. Birthdays, assignments, presentations, etc were stealing my time. I have never felt so stressed due to academics before. I have never got into a situation where I was still rushing at least three assignments while the finals are a week ahead them. I have never faced such failure in time managing. The worst part was, my body could not stand with the stresses. I have been having headache lately which I think it's due to stress. I'm always trying to manage my stress but I think I haven't found the best way yet. My temper got bad and I didn't feel like talking to anybody before I got everything done. Duhhhh. So yeah, I finally got all the assignments done like 4 hours ago and I feel so relieved now, tho I'm having my finals two days after this. Alright, it's time to bury myself with all the lecturer slides. I promise to update my birthday post soon after my finals. Stay tuned!

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Tuesday, April 11, 2017

Short Getaway to Hatyai, Thailand: Double Couples Trip

On 30th March 2017, my one week mid semester break started and I flew back to KL and spent time with my family. I was supposed to go back to uni on the 8th of April but I only bought one-way air ticket back to KL. I forgot to buy the air tix back to Kedah and as time goes by, the price rocketed so I had to purchase the the air tix two days earlier, which was on the 6th of April. The night before I went back to Kedah, Mr 182 asked me whether wanna join his two friends, which are couple, to go to Hatyai and I agreed to go. One week earlier, that was my first time meeting his friends. We went for Beauty and the Beast, but I never got the chance to speak to his friends as we all went back after the movie. I was quite nervous when I got the message from him, asking me whether wanna spend a night with his friends in Hatyai. Anyhow, I was quite happy at the same time cuz it's like finally he let me step into his circle of friends (It's not that he didn't wanna introduce his friends to me but there was no good opportunity).

On 6th April, I took the Airasia flight and flew to Kedah. My heart melted when I receive a text from him, saying that he is waiting me outside the arrival hall. I felt touched and happy cuz he has never let me waited him alone. We back to his house and took a quick rest. Unfortunately, the water supply in his house area had been turned off for reparation of the water pipes system. I only got to take a quick bath without washing my hair. Owhhh gosh! I felt so uncomfortable to meet his friends with the oily hair. 

We departed at around 6.30pm. We took a van to Hatyai from Dannok and the journey was about 1 hour (We spent about 30 mins waiting for the van). After getting down from the van, we checked in hotel at Lee Gardens Hotel and then we had dinner nearby the hotel. We walked around the area after dinner then we went back to hotel and rest. We were exhausted. 

The next morning, we walked around Lee Gardens area and we had the famous Pork Leg on Rice as breakfast.


After we checked out the hotel, we went to Central Festival Mall by taking TukTuk. Bought a new shade outside the mall with 150baht and 3 nail colours with only 100baht. It's only 100baht! Love the nude shades of nail painter so much! It was my first time trying the Thailand Teh too. It smells so good and rich! We walked around the mall and had our lunch there. When we were going to move to another tourist spot, unfortunately, it rained. We all felt so uncomfortable in the TukTuk as our body started to feel the stickiness and it was so suffocating inside the TukTuk cuz the driver curtained up the vehicle due to raining. It was my first visit to Klonghae Floating Market. It was out of my expectation. Our experience in this place got even worsen when the sky started to rain like dogs and cats. We were trapped at there. I didn't get to utilise my new shade too! We only bought one big umbrella and four of us walked closely to each other, like playing the romance scene. Anyhow, this pulled the friendship closer. 








Our last station in Hatyai was the Asean Trade Bazaar. The clothes were cheaply sold at there! It's kinda heaven for young girls! I wanted to buy a lot of outfits there, especially their short jeans pants and ripped jeans and also their cap but I got to hold my urge and save money as I am going to Bangkok in the coming August! They said the clothes there are even cheaper and nicer compared to Hatyai. I was quite amazed by my ability to hold the urges of buying stuffs in Hatyai tho. LOL! 

The rain did not stop for us when we wanted to walk to the van station. The tuktuk driver also did not show us any kindness but he even wanted to ask for ridiculous price for less than 2 mins drive (it only took us about 3 mins to WALK to the van station). So, we played the romance scene one more time, two pairs of couples walking under one huge umbrella under the rain. LOL! The van service there was better than Dannok. It took less than 10 mins to depart. After one hour, we arrived Dannok. We sat outside the Mc Donalds and waited another couple to come and join us for dinner. We went to KPK and had dinner nearby the lake. About 11.30pm, we finally got out from Thailand and went back to Jitra.

After all, I wouldn't say this trip was bad experience (due to rain). I actually enjoyed the time spent with Mr 182 and his friends. They are really friendly and funny! I felt comfortable spending time with them. It was so much better than what I have thought and imagined earlier. I scared that we might be awkward but fortunately there were no much awkwardness during the trip. We talked and we laughed. This short getaway was indeed a great start of stepping into Mr 182's circle of friends. 

So now what? It's time to back to the annoying assignment loaded life in UUM. I look forward to the next trip with my Mr 182. ❤️

Friday, March 17, 2017

#154182

I believe there are a lot of people out there, especially my friends who I have 'almost' lost contact with, are interested in this hashtag: #154182. As I have promised in my previous posts that I will write about #154182, so here it is.

The story begins with United Spirit Towards Spring 2016, the event that I joined in the beginning of 2016 in my university. One of the members, Fang Ting, has been posting pictures about our protocol team and tag us on social media. There was one fine day, Mr 182, a friend of our goddess Swee Theng, scrolling through wechat and Facebook and saw those pictures.

The photo that 182 saw and then asked swee theng for my fb

He then asked her for more pictures and our Facebook's accounts. Well, this is kinda 'Prey and Predator' technique, and I believe most of the guys do this. Back to the story, after he browsed through our Facebooks, he has the most interest on me (based on the story he told me). He added me on Facebook. I didn't accept his friend request as there's only one mutual friend which was Swee Theng and I usually approve the friend requests with many mutual friends, but of course it's not the only thing I evaluate when it comes to approving friend requests on Facebook. He followed me on Instagram and I clicked into his profile to have a look. I thought he is 27/28 years old guy at the first glance of his Facebook profile picture. However, when I checked out his Instagram profile, I realised that he is almost my age. He deleted the facebook friend request and added me again for like three times he said. I did not realised that. I thought that was Facebook's problem so his friend request kept appearing on the top. He sent me messages telling me he is friend of Swee Theng but I just ignored it.

After the Spring event, I received a lot of friend requests from my university people and I have approved most of them cuz my friend told me if we don't approve, they might say that we are lansi (proud). I saw his friend request again and that time, the mutual friends has gone up to 12 friends and most of them are my protocol team members. So I thought it's okay to approve him as my friends also approved him. He sent me messages after I approved him but I did not reply him much cuz I feel like he was quite aggressive.

Few days later, our protocol team went to Alor Setar to eat the famous wantanmee. I asked Swee Theng about this person and I told them about the story of one man kept approaching me aggressively. When I was telling them about this person, I received a text from him. He asked me whether was I in Alor Setar cuz he might have seen me. I was nervous. The feeling was like, talking bad about someone and the person might have heard it, cuz there was a table of youngster sitting near to us and by the time they left the place, I received the text. I was thinking whether was him the one of them. So I replied him and asked him, and that was the time we started to text. (Few months later, he confessed to me that the wantanmee coincidence was a lie between him and Swee Theng. Swee Theng told him where we were. He told Swee Theng he wanna prank me and asked her to just pretend she knows nothing. No wonder he always says Swee Theng was the 媒人, cuz after that wantanmee coincidence, we started texting.)

After few days, he called me and pranked me, saying he was calling from Apple Store and I won a prize (what kinda lame prank was that lollll). Then he started texting and calling me every day. The first time my heart got a bit touched was when one night I was rushing my homework, no time to entertain him, he asked me to tell him when I have done but I didn't tell. He waited my text until 4am. I felt guilty and kinda touched cuz no one ever waited me for so long (tho I'm not sure whether he was just bluffing me about waiting me till 4am or it's real). My friends were not supportive about me and this guy at the first place tho.

During the trip to Hatyai, we texted and there was the time when we talked a bit deeper and got to know more about each other. We text and talk on phone every day until now. Ohh ya, about the first meeting, he saw me on the event night but that time I didn't recognise him. He delivered Mc Donalds to me and that was the first time I saw him in real person. He is so tall and buff.  He passed the foods to me and after I thanked him, we said goodbye. It was the first time I talked to him in real person.



Our first date was on 22nd June 2016. We went to Aman Central to have dinner together.


Second date, he was setting my picture as his screen wallpaper.

Third date, went to watch movie, Now You See Me 2

During the two months mid semester break, we kind of developed feelings towards each other but I didn't want to say Yes too soon, so I asked him to wait until the sem break ends and back to Kedah. I wanted a proper confession, I mean I want him to confess to me face to face, not through texting nor phone. However, we both know that we already in relationship but just not official yet. On 3rd September 2016, the day I back to Kedah and we went to Dannok, Thailand together. That was the time he confessed to me face to face and I accepted his confession and then we officially become a pair of couple.  





So this is how we started. About the #154182, it was my idea to create that hashtag. We wanted a cool hashtag that nobody would ever use it so when we click on the hashtag, there would be only our photos, and also a unique one so people wouldn't know what that means and would be curious about it. He is very tall, 182cm and I am very short, 154cm. People always say we have the 最萌身高差距, and it sparked my creativity to create a hashtag by using our height as our unique hashtag, #154182. Yes, a lot of people asked us about the number. I think I'm a creative genius in creating special hashtag ahahhahah!

So our stories go on until now and I wish there is no ending. So far, we have been dating for 195 days, more than 6 months. During the journey, we have had a lot of little arguments. We fought for little things. But, none of these arguments could separate us, instead, they taught us a lot of lessons. He is my first love (puppy love in primary school not counted). This is my first time falling in love and got into relationship. There are a lot of couple things that I'm not familiar with. These little arguments have been teaching us how to be a good other half for each other and how to respect and love each other right. 

For those we complained about us spamming sweet photos all over your Instagram and Facebook timelines, I'm sorry bout it. Hahahhahaa 🙈🙈🙈 


If you know me well, you would probably know that I don't really share things about myself or my feelings on social media, even selfie, I would say I dont really take selfie and not to mention about posting it on social media. The first reason is because I dont really like to share on social media cuz I feel insecure of people knowing me too much and feeling it's kinda immature for sharing every feelings or rant on social media. The second reason is pretty ridiculous but it's true, I don't have a good camera nor a phone with good camera feature, that's why I don't selfie much. Lol. However, why would I share so much pictures of #154182 on social media, because I think it's kind of respect to my other half. There's no reason to hide about his existence in my life. He is kinda into photography. Why not I respect and support his interest and take couple photos with him right? And... I kinda into photoshooting these days and I enjoy taking photos with him and share our "art work" on social media. 🙈🙈 (I promise not to post too frequent alright? Hahahaha)🙈 

Penang Trip

Malacca Trip

Malacca Trip

Malacca Trip




KL Trip

KL Trip




Alright, so this is the beginning part of the story of #154182. I don't know what FUTURE will do towards this relationship but we are working on it and fighting for our future.

Thanks for having interest in this love story and reading it.

Tuesday, March 14, 2017

A summary of my 2016.


January:
Exam finally ended and back to KL. 

February: 
Celebrated CNY with Family Tan. 


My family 

陈家六朵金花 

Me and my siblings 


March:
Back to UUM and continue my life there. 

April:
My birthday month again! Before I went back to UUM, my two besties celebrated my 21st birthday earlier with me. We went to Acme Bar Coffee and had lamb steak with red wine. It was sooooooo delicious. I rarely eat lamb but that time I fall in love with that lamb steak. They fulfilled my dream to be like a Queen on that day. Appreciate the efforts they paid and I cherish the friendships with them so much! 



Jia Chee

Mei Wei

Besides, my course mates aka BSN mates, threw me a surprise. Roommate gave them the spare key and they were hiding inside my room. When I opened the door, they sang me a birthday song. I was really surprised as shown in the video. Hahahah! 










At night, FGCC gang 'kidnapped' me and threw me into a carboot and drove the car around. I always wanted this kind of 'adventure experience' and finally I experienced it. Really thankful to the gang as they have been so kind and sweet to me even though nowadays I kinda 'avoiding' them. I wish time can go back to when everything was fine. 





May:
Went to Penang to celebrate Phoebe's birthday.







Joined Spring 2016 as protocol and this month is the month when the story of #154182 has begun.



 End of the month i went to Hatyai with my cousin, her fiance and the fiance's mom.





June:
Sembreak and back to KL and I received total 3 assignments jobs from my friend. The jobs seen easy but not really because I had to sacrifice a lot of my quality time, energy to finish the assignments. The worst thing was my face condition got worsen a lot! Breakouts all over my face due to over stressed and it was my greatest nightmare! Although it was tough, I learned something while doing the assignments. Anyway, it was worthy because I got extra pocket money of total RM1500 for my trip to Taiwan in August. 

July:
Did nothing except staying at home and watch dramas. Finished three seasons of the American drama, Breaking Out. This month I would say it was the month when 182 and I got much closer and started developing feelings towards each other. We kinda couple but not official that time. If you're interested with my stories with 182, stay tuned for my coming posts, cuz I'm going to write a post about #154182.

August:
It was my first trip to Taiwan and it was my first trip to other country by taking a flight (cuz I went to Thailand and Singapore by car)! I went to Taiwan for 10 days 9 nights with my two besties, Mei Wei and Jia Chee and one tag-along, Jia Chee's mom. We went travelled half of the little Taiwan, from South heading to the North, starting form Gaoshiong then Kenting and then Hualien, and lastly Taipei. I only spent RM3000 for the whole trip, inclusive of flight tix, accommodations, transportation fee, food expenditure and leisure spending. I deleted my itinerary so if you really really interested on how I spend so less for this 10 days 9 nights Taiwan trip, then you can leave a comment below. I would try to recall back. What  I could say is I spend very less on foods. I settled my hungers like 50-60% from 7-eleven. I love their 7-11 so much! Watch the video below of my trip to Taiwan. :)




September:
Back to Kedah and had a short getaway to Dannok, Thailand with my 182. I set our official couple date on 3rd September, tho we already kinda started but not official yet in July.





We went to Penang again the next week. Hahahaha! :D











October:
Non-stopped meeting with HIH Protocol 2016. It's kinda stressed me out until I burst out in tears one night when I reached my room after meeting. My roomate and Phoebe were shocked. 

November:
Finally it's the event month. Hard work paid off. Nightmare had came to an end. I told myself not to join any events anymore. However, I would say that it was a good experience too. I made some new friends and the good memories we have built together should be magnified instead of only looking at the down time. 








December: 
Exam period. Sneaked to Dannok, Thailand with #215219315.


Took our Economics course class photos.

ECO - Economics


With Phoebe aka 219

With Phoebe aka 219
So, this has came to an end of my 2016. A lot of amazing things happened in 2016. One of the best things was I finally met someone who loves me so much, my Mr 182. Another best thing was I finally travelled to Taiwan by using my own money with my besties (Tho mom borrowed me RM1k, but I will return to her someday)! 2016 has been great to me. I thank to God for all the blessings and all the ups and downs in my 2016. Looking forward to a great year in 2017! :D