Things always get better with communication. This is what i think and i believe to it. I speak less recently. Maybe i'm stress of Trial SPM, or my brain start to filter all my thought? Both of them are the reason, i think. Since i don't talk, all the thoughts gathered in my brain, i start to go off into wild flight of fancy. But, later, i try to talk. The conversation began and i found that things are getting better. Awwww~ okayy, i don't really understand what i'm typing now. But i just want to share my experience with you guys who has the problem with family, friend or anyone else, try to talk to them, if it doesn't work, just drop few drops of tears. It's the most useful weapon, i think. LOLs! Try to slow down you voice whenever and whoever you're talking to. Try to put on a smile after your words. Stop your sentence if the situation is getting worse, remember, you talk to fix problems, not to make problems. Find another chance with better situation, then only you start to stand for you rights. Sometimes, try to think before pointing your finger to others. Stubbornness always blind our eyes. Emmmm... my point end here. These are all my ways to fix my problems. It works on me though i don't know whether does it works on you too, but, i think at least one of my ways would do you a favor :)
