The story begins with United Spirit Towards Spring 2016, the event that I joined in the beginning of 2016 in my university. One of the members, Fang Ting, has been posting pictures about our protocol team and tag us on social media. There was one fine day, Mr 182, a friend of our goddess Swee Theng, scrolling through wechat and Facebook and saw those pictures.
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| The photo that 182 saw and then asked swee theng for my fb |
He then asked her for more pictures and our Facebook's accounts. Well, this is kinda 'Prey and Predator' technique, and I believe most of the guys do this. Back to the story, after he browsed through our Facebooks, he has the most interest on me (based on the story he told me). He added me on Facebook. I didn't accept his friend request as there's only one mutual friend which was Swee Theng and I usually approve the friend requests with many mutual friends, but of course it's not the only thing I evaluate when it comes to approving friend requests on Facebook. He followed me on Instagram and I clicked into his profile to have a look. I thought he is 27/28 years old guy at the first glance of his Facebook profile picture. However, when I checked out his Instagram profile, I realised that he is almost my age. He deleted the facebook friend request and added me again for like three times he said. I did not realised that. I thought that was Facebook's problem so his friend request kept appearing on the top. He sent me messages telling me he is friend of Swee Theng but I just ignored it.
After the Spring event, I received a lot of friend requests from my university people and I have approved most of them cuz my friend told me if we don't approve, they might say that we are lansi (proud). I saw his friend request again and that time, the mutual friends has gone up to 12 friends and most of them are my protocol team members. So I thought it's okay to approve him as my friends also approved him. He sent me messages after I approved him but I did not reply him much cuz I feel like he was quite aggressive.
Few days later, our protocol team went to Alor Setar to eat the famous wantanmee. I asked Swee Theng about this person and I told them about the story of one man kept approaching me aggressively. When I was telling them about this person, I received a text from him. He asked me whether was I in Alor Setar cuz he might have seen me. I was nervous. The feeling was like, talking bad about someone and the person might have heard it, cuz there was a table of youngster sitting near to us and by the time they left the place, I received the text. I was thinking whether was him the one of them. So I replied him and asked him, and that was the time we started to text. (Few months later, he confessed to me that the wantanmee coincidence was a lie between him and Swee Theng. Swee Theng told him where we were. He told Swee Theng he wanna prank me and asked her to just pretend she knows nothing. No wonder he always says Swee Theng was the 媒人, cuz after that wantanmee coincidence, we started texting.)
After few days, he called me and pranked me, saying he was calling from Apple Store and I won a prize (what kinda lame prank was that lollll). Then he started texting and calling me every day. The first time my heart got a bit touched was when one night I was rushing my homework, no time to entertain him, he asked me to tell him when I have done but I didn't tell. He waited my text until 4am. I felt guilty and kinda touched cuz no one ever waited me for so long (tho I'm not sure whether he was just bluffing me about waiting me till 4am or it's real). My friends were not supportive about me and this guy at the first place tho.
During the trip to Hatyai, we texted and there was the time when we talked a bit deeper and got to know more about each other. We text and talk on phone every day until now. Ohh ya, about the first meeting, he saw me on the event night but that time I didn't recognise him. He delivered Mc Donalds to me and that was the first time I saw him in real person. He is so tall and buff. He passed the foods to me and after I thanked him, we said goodbye. It was the first time I talked to him in real person.
Our first date was on 22nd June 2016. We went to Aman Central to have dinner together.
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| Second date, he was setting my picture as his screen wallpaper. |
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| Third date, went to watch movie, Now You See Me 2 |
During the two months mid semester break, we kind of developed feelings towards each other but I didn't want to say Yes too soon, so I asked him to wait until the sem break ends and back to Kedah. I wanted a proper confession, I mean I want him to confess to me face to face, not through texting nor phone. However, we both know that we already in relationship but just not official yet. On 3rd September 2016, the day I back to Kedah and we went to Dannok, Thailand together. That was the time he confessed to me face to face and I accepted his confession and then we officially become a pair of couple.
So this is how we started. About the #154182, it was my idea to create that hashtag. We wanted a cool hashtag that nobody would ever use it so when we click on the hashtag, there would be only our photos, and also a unique one so people wouldn't know what that means and would be curious about it. He is very tall, 182cm and I am very short, 154cm. People always say we have the 最萌身高差距, and it sparked my creativity to create a hashtag by using our height as our unique hashtag, #154182. Yes, a lot of people asked us about the number. I think I'm a creative genius in creating special hashtag ahahhahah!
So our stories go on until now and I wish there is no ending. So far, we have been dating for 195 days, more than 6 months. During the journey, we have had a lot of little arguments. We fought for little things. But, none of these arguments could separate us, instead, they taught us a lot of lessons. He is my first love (puppy love in primary school not counted). This is my first time falling in love and got into relationship. There are a lot of couple things that I'm not familiar with. These little arguments have been teaching us how to be a good other half for each other and how to respect and love each other right.
For those we complained about us spamming sweet photos all over your Instagram and Facebook timelines, I'm sorry bout it. Hahahhahaa
🙈🙈🙈 If you know me well, you would probably know that I don't really share things about myself or my feelings on social media, even selfie, I would say I dont really take selfie and not to mention about posting it on social media. The first reason is because I dont really like to share on social media cuz I feel insecure of people knowing me too much and feeling it's kinda immature for sharing every feelings or rant on social media. The second reason is pretty ridiculous but it's true, I don't have a good camera nor a phone with good camera feature, that's why I don't selfie much. Lol. However, why would I share so much pictures of #154182 on social media, because I think it's kind of respect to my other half. There's no reason to hide about his existence in my life. He is kinda into photography. Why not I respect and support his interest and take couple photos with him right? And... I kinda into photoshooting these days and I enjoy taking photos with him and share our "art work" on social media.
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| Penang Trip |
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| Malacca Trip |
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| Malacca Trip |
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| Malacca Trip |
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| KL Trip |
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| KL Trip |
Alright, so this is the beginning part of the story of #154182. I don't know what FUTURE will do towards this relationship but we are working on it and fighting for our future.
Thanks for having interest in this love story and reading it.
